Eight ways to communicate better with your partner

Communication is the most important skill in any relationship but even more so crucial when you’re involved with someone romantically. No matter how great you and your partner communicate with each other there is always some room for improvement. If you need to improve communication skills in your relationship it can feel like an overwhelming task but this can also be a really easy thing to tweak. So don’t be stressed if you feel this is an area you and your partner need to focus on. Don’t get me wrong, it's perfectly healthy to have disagreements and arguments. But if your everyday communication skills are on point, the bigger disagreements aren’t as much of a challenge.

8. Ask how they are everyday

The simple act of checking in on your partner goes a long way. It not only keeps you in sync but also keeps you in the habit of communicating. Asking “how are you? How’s your day going?” doesn’t only keep you connected but also shows you care.

7. Talk things through before they happen

Sharing your own plans shows that you take the other person's time into consideration. Simply letting your partner know that you have a busy week coming up and might be a little all over the place goes a long way.

6. Pick your timing

It’s very important to share your feelings when you’re frustrated or upset. But not having enough time to properly discuss your feelings is essential. Don’t bring up something big if there isn’t enough time - choose your timing carefully.

5. Have relationships check-ins

Checking in for big things is just as important as knowing how their day was. Making sure you know how the other person feels about your relationship is incredibly important, particularly if big changes are happening - like moving in, getting engaged or spending long periods of time apart.

4. Say ‘thank you’ regularly

Showing your gratitude is extremely meaningful. It shows you value the other person and what they do for you. Receiving gratitude also makes people happy and helps build strong relationships.

3. Compliment each other regularly

As relationships go on it is easy to become comfortable and stop doing the things you did when it was all new and exciting. Focusing more on the things that are bothering you instead of what you like can lead to resentment. Keep telling your partner what you appreciate and love about them.

2. Be present

In today’s world it is so easy to be distracted from your partner when you are together. Make sure you put down your phone, turn off the TV and just spend time together.

1. Listen!

The most important thing you can do in your relationship is to listen to your partner. Being an active listener is a crucial life skill. Giving your full attention and really listening to what they have to say allows you to understand where they are coming from.

Communication doesn’t have to be serious. Focus on the small things and the bigger moments will be a lot more simple. Never lose the way you treated each other when it first started and always appreciate your partner. Happy Valentines Day!

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